The earth gently... the dawn embraces...
I kiss... kiss... you...
Again the threads... fate... weaves...
You are my light... you... my soul.

My soul.

This is what a loving man called his beloved woman.

The soul is the sensual center of a person; it is not without reason that they say about a devastated person: “he has lost his soul.” And if you have found love, then you have found your soul.

The most blissful state is when everything is done for the soul, and when the soul is in place.

Love for a woman is the torch that pushes a man to great deeds, for the sake of which he must
strives for something, achieves something. Otherwise, any business becomes meaningless.

It turns out that the soul itself looks at a man through the eyes of a woman, and you cannot lie to her and cannot betray her, since you will betray your own soul.

A woman spiritualizes a man’s life path, in addition, this appeal carries a special energy, we can say that this appeal is magical.

But in general, there were other appeals to wives and they are no less sincere.

Ladushka,
My love,
Beloved Beauty,
My dove,
White swan.

I think that if instead of “fishes” and “pussies” we used them, then modern marriages would be much stronger.

How does a woman address her lover now? Most often, words such as “sun”, “bunny”, “bear cub” or even “pussy” are used. But the need for tenderness was inherent in people of all nations and at all times. It’s just that the affectionate addresses were different. In the old days, women did not feel equal to men. Therefore, they did not allow themselves a condescending and affectionate tone towards their spouse.

Men considered themselves protectors of their wives, breadwinners of the family. Therefore, in their affectionate address to their wives, there was a hint of patronage. I propose to remember how people showed tenderness to each other during the times of Kievan Rus. Perhaps from the rich arsenal of ancient endearments we can take a couple for modern use? It’s not yet time to call your beloved husbands “cats”!

Times of paganism

There is plenty of evidence that before the adoption of Christianity, people in Rus' felt more liberated. Relationships before marriage, including intimate ones, were not considered something shameful. At the same time, the girls were free, like the guys, to choose a mate for themselves, and not wait for people to pay attention to them. A woman could tell a man she liked that he was “lovable” - desired, beloved, sweet.

The Slavs revered the god of love Lelya. This character in the pagan pantheon was responsible for passion, for that spark that jumps between two people. Lel was the son of the goddess of beauty Lada, who was also responsible for harmony between spouses. An echo of these beliefs can be seen in the words “cherish” and “get along” (with each other).

The reverence for the god of love was so strong that girls often called their chosen one Lelem, and also Lubitsch. And the men, accordingly, called their sweethearts Ladami. But women changed the name of the goddess and called their loved ones Lado or even more affectionately - Ladushko.

During pagan festivals, the Slavs organized orgies where they indulged in sin. All this was done for a better harvest and to appease the natural elements, and therefore no special affectionate nicknames were used for random partners.

Christian Rus'

After the baptism of the Slavs, morals became stricter, and sexual relations before marriage began to be considered a sin. But not every bride vomited herself for the crown. Moreover, the church was never able to completely eradicate old rituals and traditions from the masses. On Christmastide, in one rural hut, girls and boys gathered for “evening parties.”

For the sake of decency, a local respectable matron or an old man famous for his piety was also invited there. But young people could communicate freely and sometimes start relationships. Of course, sexual intimacy was an excess, but young people could hold hands, hug, and even kiss. Regardless of gender, such lovers said to each other: “My sweet love!”

Premarital relations

What should the girl do to let the guy know that she likes him enough to send matchmakers? Too passionate kisses, and especially intimacy, were severely condemned by society. We had to use verbal signals. But how to say what a girl’s shame does not allow? “My clear month”, “the delight of my heart” and “my dear friend” - these are those sweet words, with which a modest young woman could turn to her beloved.

In response, the guy could call her “sweetheart”, “sweetheart”, “darling”, “darling”, “darling”, “darling” and “cherishing”. And the girl could be sure that her lover would not leave her, but would come to woo her, if he said the words: “You are my betrothed!” Then she also had to say: “And you are my betrothed” (appointed by fate).

Affectionate addresses between spouses

In marriage, the wife often spoke to her husband words veiledly praising his strength as a partner: “hero,” “good fellow,” etc. But there were other endearments. For example, “my clear falcon”, “the light of my eyes”. These expressions were not considered pompous in that era. After all, the husband was a light for his wife, her guide through the world. And the wife was the soul of a man, the thing for which he lives and works.

Therefore, the beloved often said: “My soul!” Of course, most of the affectionate addresses to his wife in one way or another praised her beauty: “white swan”, “blue-winged dove”, “beloved beauty”. But there were tender words and with a sexual connotation: “My warm little warmer.”

Isn't it cute? I think that expressions of affection in the old days were more poetic than they are now. Back then, people weren’t so alienated by the stereotypical phrases “dear,” “dear,” “sweet.” It’s worth showing a little imagination to warm your loved one with the warmth of your soul.

« Light of my Eyes " and no other way, because this is the only way in the old days it was customary to speak and address a beloved husband, a man, but in fact beloved and is nothing other than “The Way” . A man, a husband, is such a ray that shows the way and leads out of various difficult everyday situations and internal unstable and inharmonious states.

A woman who loves with watches his beloved with admiration, like a light, which always reminds a woman of her beloved self. It is inherent in a woman to remind a man throughout her life what the essence is and why to move along this chosen Path in the direction of light. After all, all this is done only for the sake of and for the beloved soul.

After all, when the soul is in a forgotten state, then there is no point neither in sadness or joy, neither in achievement, nor in accomplishment, nor in conquest, nor in knowledge.

That's why, in the old days, a woman was called nothing other than “My soul” . After all, his own looks at a man through a woman’s eyes soul. And then a man is not able to be a coward, give up, betray when he looks at his beloved woman. In true purity and virtue it is impossible to accept false ones. excuses, because it’s impossible to lie to your own soul.

It happens that the man will become coarse V battles and to such an extent that only wars have meaning in life. A will look into his eyes again beloved woman, he hears her dear little voice and the copper chains of his soul immediately fall. At the same time, the man takes off his uniform and no longer sees the point in war and battles. Here Thus the ice of his heart melts and his soul opens again.

Here Woman, guardian of the hearth, When bogged down in everyday life, the bustle of home washed over her, she protects all this light and soul, and sometimes she often forgets why, everything it does, she will look into the bright eyes of your beloved and immediately remembers everything . But the point is that when a Woman looks into his bright eyes, she directly sees this true path . Right here comes understanding and meaning of why to protect everything, to preserve, and especially to create beauty. Why provide space, why preserve and cultivate a real woman and don't turn her into a woman.

In all of the above, the greatest sacred meaning of life , because it is through the eyes of a beloved man that one can see the light of another world. And this very world is nothing more than a real Home and Fatherland. After all, a man carries the spirit of his homeland in everything what creates and produces, and a woman inspires, showing this path.

With love,

Victoria Rai

Yoga is the ability to direct the mind exclusively to an object and maintain this direction without distraction.

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In Rus' they called the beloved man “The Light of My Eyes,” because a man is the Path, an arrow indicating the ascent to the upper worlds.
A loving woman looks admiringly at her beloved as a light that helps her not to forget herself.

And the woman’s name was “My Soul.”

Because it resembles that for which it only makes sense to move along this Path. Everything is just for the soul. There is no meaning in anything: neither in wars, nor achievements, nor in knowledge, nor in abilities - if the soul is forgotten.

A man looks at his woman and cannot be afraid, cannot betray, cannot give up, because his soul looks at him through her eyes. And he will not accept any false excuses. You can't lie to your soul.

And sometimes he becomes coarser in battles so that the battles themselves become the meaning of life. And if he looks into her eyes, hears her voice, the cold of his heart will melt. And he will stop shedding blood and cry. This will melt the ice that shackled the soul

Or vice versa: he will throw off the yoke and stand up to his full height, take up a weapon, and fight until he frees his soul and his people or until he dies in this battle. And in moments of fear for the body, her eyes will stand before him. And fear will recede before this look. And he will step into battle...

What is a man to a woman?

When a woman-caregiver gets confused, gets bogged down in vanity, saving everything and even forgetting why she is saving it, she will look into his eyes and remember.
He won’t even remember, but will directly see the Path.
And she will understand why she should take care, why she should preserve it, and why she should not give up even a tiny bit of beauty.
Why provide space?
Why not turn into a kitchen woman?
There is a great meaning in all this, because through the eyes of a loved one the light of the Other World is visible.
And this world is a real Home and Motherland. He is waiting. He is not a fiction. Because the man himself carries his spirit in everything he does...

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In the Old Church Slavonic language, a man was designated by the majestic word “husband” (mo˛zhь), which most fully revealed the essence of a male person and contrasted him with women - wives. “And Oleg came to Smolensk and planted his husband in it” (“The Tale of Bygone Years”).

The word "husband" itself is of Indo-European origin and is related to this word in other languages. For example, with the word man in English. Moreover, often in related languages ​​the same word or its derivative is used to designate a spouse - a man who is the husband of his wife.

In addition to “husband”, to denote a man’s age and indicate his legal capacity in Rus', there were such words as “little one”, “youth” and “elder” “... and the elder’s decision of the kozarsty: “Not a good tribute, prince!..” (there same).

A man could also be designated by his social status - slave, servant, prince, warrior.

How did it happen that the biblical “husband” became a man, and then even a man, that is, he began to be designated by a word that carries a share of derogatory words?

There were “great” and “small” men

Philologist Valery Anatolyevich Efremov, who studied the problem of naming a man, in his work “Nominations of a man in the Russian language” (magazine “World of the Russian Word”) points out that until the 13th century, a free citizen was called a husband in Rus'. And not a slave or a servant. Moreover, among the husbands there was a hierarchy.

The chronicles often spoke of “noble”, “glorious”, “great” men and “lesser” or “younger” men. Obviously, in the latter case it was not always about the younger generation, but also about more ordinary people, who were also free citizens, but bore less responsibility to other people and the fatherland and did not have a noble origin.

A man is a community!

Around the 15th century, the word “man” began to appear in chronicles and in charters in various variations - “man”, “man”. It is derived from the adjective “muzhsk” by adding the suffix -schin (a), which has the meaning of collectiveness, generalization (by analogy with the Smolensk region, foreign land or boyar region).

Initially, the word “man” was used as a colloquial word, but over time it began to enter the colloquial speech of Russian people. Gradually it lost its original meaning of community and began to mean “male person,” by analogy with “woman,” “hillbilly,” or “fatherless.”

How a “husband” became a husband

The separation of the semantic meaning of the words “husband” and “man” occurred around the 18th century. The impersonal "man" replaced "husband" as a representative of the gender, and "husband" in a neutral context came to mean married man. And in the “high” style they began to call a worthy person who has merit before others. The phrases “this worthy man”, “learned men” and others also became widespread.

In the 19th century, the word “man” came into active use, and the 20th century finally consolidated this word in the vocabulary of Soviet citizens, but this was done for the sake of... ideology! But everything is in order.

Where did the “men” come from?

As for the word “man,” as Efremov writes, it arose at about the same time as “man” - around the 15th century and is first found in “Walking across the Three Seas” by Afanasy Nikitin, who writes: “And men and the ladies are all naked and all black.”

According to philologists, the word “man” comes from the fact that in Rus' commoners were often designated as minors, incompetent in the full sense of the word, limited by some circumstances, for example, poverty.

Are the Bolsheviks to blame?

For the first three centuries, this word carried all three meanings - it meant, in fact, a man, as a bearer of the male sex, a married man, and the same name was given to peasants and residents of rural areas. Until the beginning of the 20th century, the word was completely neutral, as defined by the “Dictionary of the Russian Academy,” and only with the Bolsheviks coming to power there was a sharp division in the meaning of the words “man” and “muzhik.”

They began to call a rude, uncouth person a muzhik and began to contrast him with a “man,” who was supposed to be smart and educated, “real.” A man-man opposition was formed, in which the latter was assigned the role of an ideological outcast - a kulak, drugged by priests or a drunkard and slob.

"The Man" is back!

However, recently, as V. A. Efremov notes, a positive assessment is beginning to return to the word “man”: “A real man!”, “He is an honest hard worker, and most importantly - a man!”, while the word “man” is gaining There are more and more negative connotations that are associated with the inability of intellectuals to quickly solve everyday problems, with the “effeminacy” of city dwellers and, possibly, with homosexuality.

Scientists do not know what is causing this rethinking of old words: perhaps self-awareness is returning to the Russian people, or maybe in the urban cultural environment people are simply playing with words. In any case, scientists believe that soon the word “man” may finally supplant the word “man”.